Monday, January 21, 2013

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Joyce Carol Oates, Daddy Love: A Novel  (New York: The Mysterious Press, 2013) ("[Y]ou could say there's a disadvantage to having had a personal catastrophe in your life. [] Being unaware of the degree to which you're an asshole, because people give you a free ride. [] The actual disadvantage is that you attribute your subsequent life--every mood, every downturn--to that catastrophe. You can't imagine an alternative life. There is only the one life. You have no perspective. This was true. This was sad, banal, quasi-profound, true. [] The perspective you lose is not knowing how different you life would be, otherwise. I mean your inner, essential life...." Id. at 243-244.).